25 Things I've Learned Now that I'm a 25-year-old Separatee

1. If a man hurts you physically, and batters you emotionally - leave him, while you can. It's true what they say, if he did it once, he will do it again. (Hi Rihanna)
2. You must never depend on anyone, least of all, a man, for anything.
3. Listen to what your family tells you. They may be wrong at times, but more often than not, they are right. Don't wait for things to blow up before you actually believe what they have to say. :)
4. Follow your instincts. If it feels wrong the first time, then it probably is wrong. Don't prolong the agony.
5. There's nothing wrong about being honest about your situation. If a person is willing to accept you for who you are now, then that person is for keeps. If the person judges you, don't waste your time explaining yourself. You don't owe anyone an explanation.
6. Your mom loves you unconditionally.
7. Don't be afraid to venture out. It will do you some good.
8. Give people a chance; but don't let your guard down too easily either.
9. There will always be men who will treat you like a piece of meat. Always be wary and learn the difference between a booty call and a friend who just wants someone to talk to.
10. Some guys think that being a separated, single mom means you are hungry for pleasure. Learn to give them a piece of your mind, and tell them it's not okay to treat you that way.

11. There are still good ones out there. Don't look for them though, they will, come to you eventually.
12. Don't let your ex affect you too much. Though it's a tough position to be in, just be the bigger person and be mature about everything.
13. There's a fine line between being a risk-taker, and being reckless. All your actions have consequences.
14. You are an independent, young, attractive, beautiful woman. Don't let a man feel you otherwise ;)
15. Value those who have been truly there for you. You will meet people who will gain your trust eventually, but still, choose wisely.
16. Don't belittle yourself just because you are in this situation. You will get through, eventually.
17. If it's meant to be, whatever it is, a new person in your life, a new career milestone -- God will give it to you.
18. Enjoy all the little moments. You can't turn back time. :)
19. Appreciate what you have, and count your blessings. You came out of this alive, so you know you can survive anything.
20. Don't let fear and doubt stop you from living your life the way you want to.

21. Don't be afraid of what society might think of you. Again, you don't owe anyone an explanation.
22. If he attempts a reconciliation, keep your mind open about it; but again, it could turn into a vicious cycle. Be smart.
23. Don't entertain everyone who shows interest. Don't look too easy, because you're not.
24. Take it one day at a time. This isn't a marathon. :)

25. Pray about everything. Trust God, and never let go of the fact that things happen for a reason; whatever those reasons are, He will reveal them to you at the perfect time.